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Anonymous
| | Posted on Friday, February 02, 2001 - 12:30 pm: | |
About 6 months ago, I made a posting that is, to my surprise, still here. Called "A simple solution to a lock"
After 2 bouts with infidelity, he was given a choice, the highway or a chastity device, which he chose the later.
I could no be happier. He has long lost the desire for the strip joints and is now at home at nights where he should be. No more drinking and driving. And since he cannot masturbate, he no longer looks at porn on the internet.
I now get a goodbye kiss in the morning as well as a welcome home kiss. Flowers ar work, shows up to take me to lunch about once a week and has a nice hot supper almost every evening. We now soak in the tub together, I get wonderful back rubs, and he has once again discovered oral sex. I need only mention, I want a screamer, and he is on his knees giving me pleasure with his tongue.
Our sex life?? Couldn't be better. Last year at this time, we might have had sex once a week, and it was very lacking. Now, we have sex 2, 3, maybe 4 times a week and we are both left most happy. He is far much more loving and caring now.
I do understand that sometimes he needs additional relief. And I do allow him to masturbate. However, there is a rule. He must masturbate in front of me. No bathroom, no being in private. At first it was awkward for both of us but now I enjoy watching him jerk himself off and he gets the relief he needs.
He now understands as long as we are together, he will wear a chastity device. As a matter of fact, I now have a spare, just in case.
I will never again be involved with a man unless he is in a chastity device and I am the keyholder. |
Anonymous
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 5:13 am: | |
I have a question for you Anonymous on Friday, February 2, 2001 - 01:30 pm or any key hold that has the wearer in a belt for cheating so you can trust him or her again.
How will you handle this if your belted mate some time in the future comes to you and says we need to talk. The talk goes some thing like this.
Honey I love you, in the past I have betrayed your trust in me. I know you had good reason to
keep me locked in a chastity belt in the past. I feel after all this time in the belt I am feeling hurt that you can’t find a way to trust me again. It is going to be a big problem if you don’t find away to trust me again with out the belt. If we don’t find away we are going to have big problems. |
Anonymous
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 12:14 pm: | |
So he can cheat again?
She made it pretty clear that she does not want to
face a problem with infidelity again, and he has
agreed to her terms. I don't think that she is
being unreasonable. He opened the door to the
need to be belte |
j
| | Posted on Monday, February 26, 2001 - 9:44 am: | |
Will he start cheating again? will he continue to be faithful? . At least the person who posted the
question seem to be saying. Have you forgiven me or just punishing me?
That question sound like test for her. So he knows weather she loves him or loves the control.
She stated that she would never let him out except for her pleasure. He did agree to wear the
device. She is happy now and the husband seem to happy. All though he has not said he was happy about wearing it. What happens say after 5 years? After time people change there mind about what they want and agreed to. The question above stated, big trouble if she did not find some why to trust him. To me “big trouble” means daily augments. Working late. Finding some thing else to do so you don’t have to spend time together. Sleeping in a different bedroom. If they don’t work it out a divorce. Maybe even worse then that.
If they had 5 years of a good marriage and the husband was doing everything he could to make it
work and they were happy together. If it was me, with that request to remove the device. I would still try to keep him in the chastity device. I am not sure if I would risk the marriage by insisting on it when he was at home with me. As I see it if the marriage is starting to have trouble and/or broke up after 5 good years it would be on her head for not finding a way to trust him. |
Anonymous
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 12:22 pm: | |
I will reply to your posting.
First I am 42, he 33, we are not married but have lived together for 10 years. I am the major breadwinner, he does what he wishes, mostly play golf and putter around the golf course as a part time pro.
After 2 bouts of infidelity, I gave him a choice. He could leave or he could stay but under my rules. He was given plenty of time to decide knowing my demands. He chose to stay and now,as a condition, wears a chastity device. He is not allowed out of it unless I am present and he must masturbate in my presence if he wishes additional relief. He, in effect, put me in charge of his dick, something, he knows, he will never again regain control of as long as we are together.
He understands that he is free to leave anytime and I will bear no bad feelings if he chooses to do so.
Right now, he says he is very happy and glad I took control of him. What will the future hold??
I don't know |
Bob
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 1:05 pm: | |
Hello, Anonymous,
Congratulations on your arrangement. Can you answer this question for me ?
Does he wear the belt at night ? What are your beliefs about noctural emissions ? He could be having these if he has the belt off at night. |
Anonymous
| | Posted on Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 2:51 pm: | |
Does he wear the device at night?? The majority of the time he does. If not, he himself puts it on the the morning and I lock it. He did have some trouble sleeping, but has adjusted.
Second?? Wet dreams?? If he has, he has never spoken of them. But then, I am doing a pretty good job of keeping him "drained"
Shortly after he bgan wearing the device, he got "mealymouth" with me one Saturday morning. At which time, I left him locked up for 21 days without any relief. Let me assure you, that most certain got his attention.
Since then, I was out of the country once on business for 17 days, and he was "very happy" to see me off the plane.
I need only not allow him to masturbate when he needs relief, and he falls back into line. |
Bob
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 10:56 am: | |
Do you ever check his underwear for any semen stains ? If he is having wet dreams then that would be your clue. You said he does many nice things for you. Do you ever have him handwash your lingerie and panties ? Do any of your friends or family know about this arrangement ? |
Anonymous
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 12:13 pm: | |
Did I miss something?
What kind of device does he wear? |
carl
| | Posted on Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 4:21 am: | |
Speaking as a wearer not a keyholder, I agree that extended periods for misdemeanour or whatever do focus the attention and yes, I'm very glad to see my wife almost any time, especially after a few days locked up and in anticipation of being let out. I'm generally locked up for a week and haven't been locked up for more than 2 weeks (the second week is always because I've misbehaved, or once I was unlucky and she had her period at the end of week 1 so she gave me a second week anyway). But by the end of the second week I'm crawling up the wall for sex, and she knows it. And I'm very keen to please, obviously. |
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