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A CHASTITY BELT STORY HOW I CAME TO WANT ONE Apart from hearing about chastity belts in the stories about the knights and the crusades, when I was a child. I had not come across any other reference to chastity belts until recently. About eighteen months ago while searching the internet for a high security software protection utility for software I had written. I had forgotten to enclose the search string in quotes, so it searched for the individual words. I ended up on Altarboys site looking at an entirely different kind of security than that which I sought. At that time I still had an image of chastity belts that had been formed when I was young. I was amazed to discover that they still existed and were still being made and worn. The pictures of the belts for women still fitted that image in my memory, but chastity belts for men? The belts for the men looked remarkably similar to those for women and at that time I had the concept that the purpose of a chastity belt was to prevent the wearer from being penetrated. Such was my ignorance then, I assumed a male chastity belt also prevented the wearer from being penetrated, i.e. they were for homosexuals. However after reading some of the text, it gradually dawned on me that the male belts controlled the penis and denied its access to the wearer. This was a big turnaround for me and took quite a while for me to grasp the significance of this (to me) new concept. At this stage I had no intention of ever getting involved with chastity belts in any way. Because the male belts I had seen at first were so like the female ones, I still tended to think of them as being, or at least looking a little bit effeminate. Also my first associative impression that they were for homosexual play still lingered. Then one day I saw a picture of a Walter Goethals belt. This
was obviously male. No front plate like the ladies belts, but
a stainless steel tube whose function could not be doubted. Although
I still had no use for one. I could however identify with the
Goethals design. Some months passed, and as we began the run
up to Christmas I became aware that my wife had become enamoured
with a particular ring. Although this ring was not in the Elizabeth
Taylor league, it was not trivial either. I did want to give
her something very special, to show her my feelings for her.
The ring somehow seemed woefully inadequate for this purpose.
I realized that even if I got one ten times the price, still
it would in no way demonstrate my feelings for her. It was simply
a matter of changing some numbers in a bank account and had no
real significance for me. I wanted to give her something that
demonstrated a real commitment, but could not think of anything
suitable. At about this time, some long-standing friends were
about to celebrate their twenty fifth wedding anniversary and
as part of this process had decided to undertake a re-affirmation
of vows ceremony. Although my initial reaction to this was not
too positive, once I had again seen those vows, I knew what it
was that I had been trying to do. I wanted something to demonstrate
that the vows were not just theoretical, or just symbolic like
a wedding ring. The idea of a chastity belt seemed to fit my
requirements exactly. How to introduce this subject to my wife
posed a difficulty however. Given my own pre-conceptions I assumed
that she would have a negative opinion of chastity belts and
that she would regard them as an ancient form of repression.
After some thought, I ended up simply telling her what it would
mean to me. It is just my way of re-affirming or enhancing our
original vows and was effectively a 'super wedding ring' but
whereas my original hardly worn wedding ring was purely symbolic,
the chastity belt was also theoretically functional. It was of
course consensual, and my choice, but still, she was perturbed
that it might make her party to something repressive or unkind.
This was after she realized that this was a serious suggestion
on my part. She thought about it for a couple of days, then we
discussed it again. By now she was way ahead of me. I had only
gotten to the stage of wanting to 'give myself' to her. I had
not thought through all the implications. She had. Although still
bemused by the idea, she realized most or all of the problems
that might occur in such a lifestyle. This in itself was proof
that she had been giving it some serious thought. For instance
I had in the past 'fussed' her for 'attention'. Wearing a chastity
belt would make me completely dependent on her and therefore
it was quite possible that it could cause disharmony between
us if I wanted attention and she was not in the mood. So I needed
to assure her that from now on any sexual activity had to be
her choice, and her choice alone. I would live by her decisions.
Given the manner in which I had introduced the subject of chastity
belts to her, it could be no other way. GETTING THE BELT I went to meet Walter at his home to be fitted with his new 'heavy locking' chastity belt. When he first handed it to me I was immediately struck by the weight and quality of construction. This was the first time I had ever seen a real chastity belt. Walter showed me some of the other designs he makes. We went to the fitting room and I put the belt on. It was a strange sensation. Walter quickly adjusted the belt to suit me, although truth be told it needed little adjustment. I was amazed that despite its somewhat Gothic appearance, how comfortable it was. Walter then took me back to my hotel. After having an exploratory trip around Antwerp I went back to my hotel for an evening meal. At that time I had been without sleep for about 30 hours, so I decided to go to bed. I put on the belt and went to sleep, It was that comfortable and I was tired. I awoke at sometime between 10 and 11pm. After checking all was well, I dressed and went for a walk around the block. After less than about 100 yards or so I noticed some very uncomfortable chafing between my legs (caused by the front part of the anal ring) so I decided to cut back to the square and my hotel. On my way down a side street to the square I noticed some 'ladies' hanging around doorways. As I passed by, it dawned on me that they had nothing to offer me, as my keys were in the hotel room. I have been married (and faithful) for many years. Now I immediately noticed a shift in thinking, simply by wearing the chastity belt, I could not as in the past, choose to decline any advance should there be one. The chastity belt had already made that decision for me. I had not imagined this loss of autonomy would be so immediate. I got back to the hotel, had a couple of drinks in the bar and went back up to my room and to bed. I was still wearing the belt. I did wake a couple of times during the night and had to make one toilet stop, my first, this too was remarkably easy. I left the belt off when I got up the Sunday morning, had breakfast and toured the local market. After lunch Walter collected me from the hotel and we went back to his place. The white foam had come away from the anal ring and Walter glued on a new one. He also adjusted the rear swivel to pull the anal ring tighter and it no longer chafed when I walked. We then left for the train station and I was on my way back to England. Chastity belt stowed in my rucksack. Due to the conflict in Kosovo There was extra security at the Eurostar terminal and I waited patiently for my bag to come through the x-ray machine, fully expecting to have to explain what I was carrying. I had decided the only way was to simply brazen it out should there be any questions. However my chastity belt (and I ) passed through without comment. On my arrival home, after greetings were exchanged, my wife
asked to see the chastity belt. She had some serious doubts about
its comfort, commenting that it looked like some medieval instrument
of torture. I assured her that it was ok and put it on for her
to see. I explained the locking system to her, and she unlocked
and then re-locked the belt. I then told her how to remove the
key. It was a very strange feeling to stand there locked in and
seeing the key in her hand. Also when she left the bedroom and
went down into the kitchen I felt a real strong compulsion to
follow her (and the key). I kept it on (in a way I had no choice)
while I answered her various questions. This was a very meaningful
and frank conversation, which helped to set out a basic set of
ground rules. That done we returned to the bedroom and we had
had a little cuddle, after which my wife, now key holder removed
the belt before going to work.
THE BELT ITSELF I have no experience of any chastity belt but this; some of
the comments may be common to all or some others or unique to
this belt or design. The waistband is sculptured to fit, and it does, beautifully. I never imagined that it could be so comfortable. The front ends of the waistband terminate in a pair of sliding links, which have a locating peg or pin at the end. This locating pin engages into one of a number of slots inside the front plate, the farther in you push the link, the tighter the waistband becomes. The links, once located in their required slots are locked by a locking bar, which is controlled by an internally mounted padlock. A very neat and nifty bit of design. To release, simply turn the key, which is recessed, into the lower middle front of the front plate and it is unlocked, All you need do then is lift the links upwards and you are free. Definitely a quick release mechanism. Attached to the bottom of the front plate by a 3/16" or thereabouts diameter bar, which is bent into a squarish 'u' shape is Walters' now familiar curved penis tube. This in turn, via a hinged joint is attached to the anal ring, then another small hinge joint into a narrow shaped link which goes up the back to the waistband. This connection to the waistband forms an adjustment point via a series of holes in the rear link secured by a swivel joint in the waistband itself.
LEARNING TO LIVE WITH A CHASTITY BELT I found that the best system, for me anyway, was to do what
I could, and the more I used the belt the less intrusive it got.
I had a few minor problems, and one edema, which was quickly
sorted, (due to a mis-aligned tube). The only bad experience
I had were some drops of blood, which had come from the drain
holes. The tip of my penis had a very small scratch, I think
from rubbing the end of the tube, but may have been from pressing
against a drain hole. Walter thought it might be a little piece
of swarf come loose from the end of the penis tube which may
have been embedded in the coating he puts on the inside of the
tube. Either way I took a few days to thoroughly examine the
tube and heal. It was a while before my confidence returned.
I have not had any recurrence of this problem, so Walter may
well be right. After about a month and some bending and other
adjustments I was generally comfortable with it. By this time
my routine was largely to wear it by night and at the weekends.
In the morning my key holder would release me before going to
work. One morning she did not release me. Nothing was said, it
was as if she had 'forgotten', but we both knew that the time
had come for me to go solo. My first day at work passed easily,
I was a bit self-conscious at first, but after an hour or so
this feeling had passed. I did find that driving and sitting
for a long while could get uncomfortable, but generally I was
able to move about as necessary. I did get to have quick 'peek'
for the first evening or two to ensure all was well, but this
practice soon stopped. Partly because it was self-defeating,
if I was in the belt and comfortable the disturbance of removal
and replacement was more likely to cause discomfort than leaving
well alone. It was never my intention to set any records for
endurance; my motivation was simply to give my newly appointed
key holder something special and precious. I owned nothing more
precious to me than that which was contained by the belt. The
contents of the belt I had now given to my wife. We do not have
a long list of rules as some couples, just this. These notes were sent back with the belt := The front links need to have the locating pins put on the
other side. This will reduce the tendency to pull the top edge
of the front plate into the stomach area. Ideally some form of
radius should be on the top edge of the front plate. Maybe some
filing is needed. There needs to be an adjustment between the end of the penis tube and the anus ring, so the anus ring can be centrally located. Alternatively, maybe use a solid round bar instead of the anus ring. Although this would be inconvenient for defecation needing to be held aside, it would eliminate most or all of the comfort issues I have experienced. The existing adjustment for the rear strap to waistband is ok, but would be better if it had the vernier enhancement that we have discussed. The penis tube needs replacing with a slightly longer one, partly because of the rough edges inside, and partly because of the abrasions I have experienced caused by the tip rubbing against the inside end of the tube. Please note the angle of the penis tube to front plate. This could be reduced when the pins on the links are reversed. Also it would be very helpful if you could make some more room for my testicles. These modifications would ensure a better fit, and would also allow a proper adjustment sequence e.g. 1. Use front links to tension waistband. Everything hangs on this. 2. Centralize the penis tube over base of penis using new front plate to tube adjustment. 3. Centralize anus ring over anus by using adjustment between end of penis tube and anus ring. 4. Snug it all up using rear link to waistband adjustment. I hope this is of use to you. Regards
THE REVISED "HEAVY LOCKING" BELT Arrived back on June 28th. It was broken in transit. Bitterly disappointed I returned it the following day. Walter got it after two plus weeks. It finally arrived back on Wednesday July 21st. The first time I put the revised belt on, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. This was mainly due to the new solid rear strap and an absence of the anus ring assembly. Walking was fine; I took the dog out for her evening walk of some 2-3 miles without any chafing. The only discomfort was some pressure in the pubic bone area. Gradually over about two weeks with some adjustments to the belt we acclimatized to each other. It has been in continuous use since then. The revisions included dispensing with the old anus ring in favor of the solid bar, although to be exact the rear bar is a 6mm hollow tube with 1mm thick walls. This is then ovalised to the point of nearly being flat by some persistent hammering by Walter. It is somewhat inelegant to use for defecation purposes; you just need to hold it to one side. This is easily accomplished by holding the front (penis) tube with one hand and the rear strap with the other. The freedom of movement that this design allows however is well worth the few moments of inconvenience. It is important to adjust the belt to suit its wearer very carefully. In particular with the WG design it is vital to ensure that there are no 'pressure points' especially in the area of the pubic bone and around the base of penis, as these will cause edemas to form. A good general tip is to ensure that the top edge of the tube entrance is flush with the back of the back of the front plate. It is permissible for the bottom edge to protrude past this line as the body curves away at this point.
THE EFFECTS OF CHASTITY BELT WEARING Please note that many of the effects of wearing a belt actually reverse what may be your first thought.
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CONCLUSION The reasons for wanting a cb are numerous and often unclear.
There are several scenarios, which cater for the bulk of wearers. |